In the world of law enforcement and military service, we often encounter stories of valor, sacrifice, and resilience. However, every once in a while, a tale emerges that resonates deeply, not just because of its heroism but due to its profound humanity. One such story is that of Bobby Somers, beautifully captured in the book “Lessons in Cadence.”
Born on an Army base in Germany and raised in the shadows of Fort Bliss in El Paso, TX, Bobby’s early life was anything but ordinary. The challenges began early on, with family complexities and the harsh realities of street life. But amidst the chaos, young Bobby found solace in an imaginative world of his own creation, aptly named “Bobby’s World.” This world, though fictional, provided a haven from the discrimination, neglect, and turmoil he faced daily.
For many of our brothers and sisters in uniform, whether in the police force or the military, the struggles of childhood and adolescence can leave lasting scars. But as I’ve often emphasized, it’s not the challenges we face but how we respond to them that defines us. And Bobby’s response? It was one of resilience, determination, and an unyielding spirit.
Transitioning from the tumultuous world of street gangs to the disciplined ranks of the Army, Bobby’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of purpose and belonging. The Army, with its structured environment and camaraderie, offered a fresh perspective and a chance at redemption. But the story doesn’t end there.
In a twist that few could have predicted, Bobby discovered a passion that would further redefine his life: the culinary arts. The chaos of the kitchen, with its frenzied pace and creative demands, became a therapeutic outlet. Cooking not only honed his skills but also reignited a sense of pride and self-worth that had been dimmed by years of adversity. I’ve witnessed a similar story in that of another inspiring friend of mine, Chef Rush, the White House Chef with 24 inch biceps that does 2,222 push ups a day.
For our fellow officers and veterans reading this, Bobby’s story (and Chef Rush’s) serves as a beacon of hope. It reminds us that no matter the challenges we face, be it on the streets of our cities or the battlefields overseas, there’s always a path forward. And often, that path is illuminated by our passions, our dreams, and the communities we build along the way.
Bobby’s involvement with charities like ours, the FitOps Foundation (@fitops), and Merging Vets and Players (MVP) (@mergingvetsandplayers) further underscores this message. Through this work, he has connected with a community of individuals who shared his experiences, his struggles, and his aspirations. Together, they embarked on a journey of mutual growth, support, and empowerment. I have seen the power of this community work miracles, time and time again. I cannot recommend searching these organizations out highly enough!
The Power of Story
As I reflect on Bobby’s story, briefly chronicled in “Lessons in Cadence,” I’m reminded of a principle I hold dear: the power of storytelling. Stories have the ability to inspire, to heal, and to transform. They bridge gaps, foster understanding, and ignite change. And in our line of work, where challenges are a daily reality, stories like Bobby’s offer a glimmer of hope and a roadmap to a brighter future.
To our police officers, military veterans, and all who have faced adversity, I urge you to draw inspiration from Bobby Somers. Embrace your past, however tumultuous, and let it fuel your future. Seek out your passions, build your community, and remember that every challenge is an opportunity in disguise.
In the words of Bobby, it’s about finding the “zest” in life, even when the journey begins in a scramble. And as we’ve seen through his remarkable journey, with resilience, passion, and a dash of creativity, anything is possible.
Stay strong, stay inspired, and always remember the lessons in cadence.
For More…
In the challenging world of law enforcement and military service, remember that you’re never alone. If you’re a police officer or veteran in need, please don’t hesitate to reach out. There’s a wealth of resources, both online and locally, designed to support you. For those seeking guidance and inspiration, we’re offering a free copy of “Lessons in Cadence.” Simply drop us an email, and it’s yours. For our civilian readers, consider purchasing a copy. Every book you buy ensures two free copies for our brave veterans and officers. And if you’re looking to make an even bigger impact, visit www.weshalldefend.com and grab a shirt. Every purchase directly supports the Stay Safe Foundation’s mission and events. To stay updated on our journey and future blogs, sign up for our newsletter or text message list. Together, we can make a difference, one story at a time.
About Eric Basek
Eric is the co-founder of Stay Safe Foundation, a former law enforcement officer and a current Coast Guard reservist. He is the author of “Lessons in Cadence,” and is passionate about helping people better themselves through fitness. Eric is our director’s husband, and dad to Logan and their dog Rajah. They live in Florida.